tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-759410971926635502.post5026411927932968343..comments2011-05-24T14:49:17.742-07:00Comments on Mission: Gidgelet: Thoughts on a gloomy MondayUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-759410971926635502.post-23110969817023468392011-03-23T10:15:28.539-07:002011-03-23T10:15:28.539-07:00All I can say is you keep thinking about this as m...All I can say is you keep thinking about this as much as you possibly want. As long as you're thinking positively then you are doing no harm. I'm sure you go through days of 'when will I just get that positive?' but no one 'get's it' unless they've been through it and know what wanting a baby badly feels like. <br /><br />It takes a lot of strength, courage and willpower to do what you're doing. I find it amazing what women put their bodies through to want to create a beautiful baby and just get the chance to look into the eyes of sometihng they've created. And when it's all said and done and you're family is finally here it seems as if all the pain you went through fades away.<br /><br />I'll keep you in my prayers...Loredanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10281756601492887263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-759410971926635502.post-78668825650531694672011-03-21T14:31:29.898-07:002011-03-21T14:31:29.898-07:00I'm so sorry too :( Our situations actually s...I'm so sorry too :( Our situations actually seem pretty similar. My husband is super laid back too (except about sports LOL). Every month when I'm completed crushed and thinking things like now I won't have a baby before I'm 30, now we won't have a baby in 2011, etc. he's all we're still young and I'm sure it will work out. It's really frustrating sometimes. <br /><br />We checked out the urologist too, and for us it didn't really help a lot (and it cost a lot of money!). He recommended surgery for J, who wasn't interested and it took us several weeks to see him for the initial appointment and several weeks between appointments which was frustrating. I guess we got an additional diagnosis out of it, but that was about it. Hopefully your situation will turn out differently with the urologist. Hugs!Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09616675420814694058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-759410971926635502.post-86972356598335690422011-03-21T13:34:05.804-07:002011-03-21T13:34:05.804-07:00I'm so sorry :-( I can't understand what ...I'm so sorry :-( I can't understand what you're going through, but I do know what it's like to have a husband who gets laid back in stressful situations. It seems like whenever I am having a meltdown, my husband gets very mellow and talks about how it's "out of our control" and that I should just not worry( as if it were that easy). I hope that you're able to get the urologist appt ASAP, and please keep us informed. You have a whole bunch of blog friends who are thinking of you :-)Jenny @ Practically Perfect...https://www.blogger.com/profile/12590373823861775665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-759410971926635502.post-76673853319468857592011-03-21T10:31:13.540-07:002011-03-21T10:31:13.540-07:00Gidget, I am sorry. I truly understand how frustra...Gidget, I am sorry. I truly understand how frustrated you feel. With MFI, I really think unless you're doing IVF with ICSI, you've just got to get lucky, and the egg situation has less to do with it (which is wonderful when you're a planner/obsessive who would love to DO something to up your chances but doesn't know how).<br /><br />My only tip is that we took a month off in December between our 2ndt and 3rd IUIs. We didn't plan to, but DH's travel schedule got in the way. It wound up being really beneficial. I was able to get in a better mental head space, shake off the chemical pregnancy, and be much, much more relaxed when we got to our 3rd IUI.<br /><br />My other tip is-- watch out with the 150 mg of Clomid. I had no side effects other than headaches on the lower doses, but on 150 I had two days of practically a nervous breakdown. Eventually I realized what was going on and felt less out of control, but I was freaked for a while. I though I was legitimately going crazy.Secret Sloperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16007764157682145537noreply@blogger.com